Dianeisms

Fair Game

Posted by Dianeism , Thursday, May 13, 2010 6:41 PM

When the hotness of the summer hits the surface, the layers of clothes peal off, outdoor activities become a must, and it also seems to bring passion and new relationships into people’s lives. I don’t know why, but it seems like during the warm months people’s hormones seem to awaken from a winter slumber. When we come to the end of our warm day’s, people scramble to find someone to hibernate with over the cold winter nights. Some people might disagree with me, but dating really is a game. Now, I am not saying hurting people’s feelings is cool because it’s not, but most of us have led at least someone on in our lives or done something to someone that we wouldn’t want done to ourselves. We all make mistakes and do things we shouldn’t so in the dating game people’s feelings are bound to get hurt. So if you don’t want to get hurt just don’t enter into the dating game, which is of course impossible. There are people who do maliciously try to hurt other people and those people were just born in the bellows of a heartless hell. However, the majority of people are those who don’t mean to be hurtful. Even if we don’t want to hurt someone on purpose we still receive bad karma in one way or another. Life can be so confusing and most of us don’t know what we want, that is why we make mistakes.
I am not a fan of leading on people and people should not do it, but since mistakes are inevitable the person being led on should recognize it and move on. If you are not sure how to tell if you are being led on, here is how to know. If your crush says one thing and does another or does one thing and says another, most of the time that means they are confused and do not know what they want. Get out while you can if you are in this situation because most of the time you will get hurt. One of the only ways to make the person who is leading you on realize what they want is to leave them alone. Some might call this playing hard to get, but that is exactly what they have been doing to you so go for it. If the person who leads you on goes about their business and stops bothering you, its time to move on. Or the string puller might realize what he or she wants when your gone and come after you. Or the they might come back to you, then leave you again and rinse and repeat. These people are still confused and you should tell them to take a hike and make them chase you a little. Most people like when someone shows less interest in them so they can figure out ways to make you like them again. This is the reason dating is called a game, because someone will finish first in everyone’s race its only a matter of time. I plan on enjoying it while it lasts because your only young once. I have my whole life to live with a ball and chain. Once your in a relationship your locked up and marriage is throwing away the key, so you'd better find someone you can stand for a life sentence!
Dating fopauxs are tricky and different advice should be given based on individual instances. Everyone should be cautious when it comes to other people’s feelings, but just remember everyone makes mistakes.